Too much to say; Where to begin?

by Mindy on May 6, 2013

Dear Blog:

I miss you, immensely. I stare at your blank screen often, watching the cursor blink, waiting for the words to spill from my fingertips. Then nothing happens. Overwhelmed by everything I want to say, I don’t know where to begin, how to begin, what to divulge, what to silently avoid … so I close the browser and await another day in the hopes that I will figure it out later.

But “later” has yet to arrive. There’s too much life to share and far too much commentary to make; I never can decide where to begin following another two months of cobweb-gathering here at “The Byline.”

So, dearest blog — and three readers who stumble upon these words — I offer my apologies for choosing negligence over the head-first dive into some topic, any topic. This tiny corner of the vast interwebs deserves significant attention, if not for anything other than providing me the opportunity and space to share my voice when I so choose. How dare I not take advantage of that simply because I know not where the cursor will lead in the translation of thoughts to cohesive sentences.

Here, then, is where I start, with an explanation of my not-so-sorrowful blog-writing woes. Time to strive for better and embrace the empty slate. My whole being yearns to use you, dearest blog, to its fullest potential — from the musings in my mind to the hands that want to graze this keyboard and press every carefully-selected letter. No more excuses, no more overwhelming feelings; I finally chose a beginning moment. Must continue on.

- M

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Tuneage Tuesday — “Machinehead”

by Mindy on March 26, 2013

Little known fact about me? I am crazy in love with the band Bush*. Something about the deep, rocker, grunge-y tones of “Sixteen Stone” hooked me when I was ridiculously young in the mid-90s. As I grew older and actually understood the lyrics, I was a fan evermore. And, let’s face it, a gorgeous lead singer certainly helped!

Like most individuals who followed Bush, I was bummed when the guys parted ways. However, as soon as I started hearing rumors of reuniting a few years ago, I was pretty ecstatic. Their sound isn’t quite as awesome as it was way back when — but, let’s face it, fans tend to be nostalgic. Regardless, I’m stoked they are back and making new music.

Enough babble. I heard “Machinehead” by total coincidence on the radio earlier today and wanted to share this tidbit of myself with everyone. Maybe nobody knows you’re a closet Bush fan, too — hardy har har, really, I mean the band, get your mind out of the gutter. Either way, classic tuneage right here from a decade of seriously better music.

* Purposefully phrased as “the band Bush” for all you pervert friends out there.

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The world of social media is one click away. We utilize it daily to share everything from the meal we will momentarily consume to our innermost thoughts behind an anonymous username. As we post these meanderings from minute to minute, we rarely consider the important role this tool plays in our consumer nation, engaging people in new ways never capable beforehand.

Care to submit a complaint? Send a tweet. Have a question? Submit a comment on Facebook and hope for a swift response. Companies are utilizing these sites for precisely this purpose, desiring better relationships with their customers.

One such business owner, fashion designer and founder of Frank and Lu, Michael Jarvela, spoke quite earnestly about his use of social media and the absolute importance of user engagement… (See more — A video interview with Jarvela and more social media discussion — at http://bit.ly/105p5YC.)


DISCLAIMER: This blog was written for Film Annex, www.filmannex.com, who has hired me to do a wee bit of freelance work (yay!). However, if you are into supporting independent, online film distribution and checking out the artistry from SO many contributors — as well as assisting all those individuals, including myself, who are paid to write blogs, I recommend checking out the site (after you read the rest of my post, of course).

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Tuneage Tuesday — “Thrift Shop”

March 12, 2013

There is something about this slightly ridiculous, quite popular song that I cannot shake whatsoever… And to make it that much sweeter, the video has a DeLorean front and center less than 30 seconds in, before we even begin to “pop tags.” Face it, once you hear “Thrift Shop,” it’s love or hate and you [...]

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Fashion forward? Still a step behind…

March 11, 2013

Until quite recently, fashion has remained just beyond my mental reach. Skinny jeans? Mixing patterns? Bright colors? But I was the girl in baggy jeans and sneakers, likely revealing too much cleavage, baffled by hairstyles and the idea of changing purses to match an ensemble. And then suddenly — please don’t dare ask when or [...]

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Single, Day 368.

February 23, 2013

It was Feb. 21, 2012 and after four years and eight days, the ex and I split. I had no desire to attempt another relationship. I yearned to be single, to figure out my life and who I was on my own. I desperately needed it and realized I was tearing myself apart without it. [...]

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Finding inspiration and empowerment in all spaces.

February 17, 2013

In a time when I occasionally feel down and out, as if my “FUNemployment” is simply the miserable unemployment and consistent job search that it somewhat is, I seek inspiration to keep motivated. From personal goals to powerful women, finding that reason to fight each day, to move forward rather than sit on the couch [...]

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Tuneage Tuesday — “Good Vibrations”

January 22, 2013

How on Earth have I yet to feature “Good Vibrations,” only my absolute FAVORITE guilty pleasure tune? When this Marky Mark and the Funky Bunch hit comes across my iPod, I’m instantly sucked into the moment, caught up in my poor rap skills and awkward white-girl dancing for the next four-and-a-half minutes. Working on a [...]

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Falling on Deaf Ears: ABC Family’s “Switched at Birth” and the Deaf Culture

January 20, 2013

More than a decade ago — as my high school reunion committee has recently reminded me — I learned the sign language alphabet in an effort to communicate with a classmate from whom I had been unceremoniously separated from due to our constant whispering during lecture. I additionally picked up a few word signs, such [...]

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Thoughts on a Thursday

January 17, 2013

Why yes, I know the title is tacky; however, I have a few brief bullets — some personal, some general — that weren’t quite worthy of their own dedicated post and decided this was the best method of sharing that commentary. Enough introductory babble. Onto the mostly worthless tidbits of knowledge: Leggings: I still don’t [...]

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